जहाँ तक दूसरों पर अपना दुख थोपने की बात है, कोई भी हर वक़्त रोना-धोना लेकर घूमना नहीं चाहता। लेकिन शायद दूसरों पर भरोसा करके अपनी भावनाएँ उनके साथ बाँटना ही हमारा उनके लिए एक उपहार है। इससे शायद उन्हें अपने किसी दर्द से निपटने में मदद मिल सके।
As for inflicting our sorrow on other people, one does not want to go around blathering and crying all the time. But perhaps it is our gift to others to trust them enough to share our feelings with them. It may help them deal with some of their own.
As for inflicting our sorrow on other people, one does not want to go around blathering and crying all the time. But perhaps it is our gift to others to trust them enough to share our feelings with them. It may help them deal with some of their own.
अगर हम चुन सकें कि हमें कहाँ रोना है—घर पर या कुछ ऐसे लोगों के बीच जो पूरी तरह हमारी बात समझ सकें—तो शायद हमें थोड़ी राहत महसूस हो। लेकिन अगर हम ऐसा नहीं कर सकते—मान लीजिए हम गिरजाघर में हैं और कोई प्रार्थना गीत हमें अंदर से झकझोर दे, या किसी फ़ुटबॉल मैच के दौरान हमें अपने उस बेटे या बेटी की याद आ जाए जो अब इस दुनिया में नहीं है—तो ख़ैर, यह पूरी धरती ही हमारा घर है और हम जहाँ चाहें रो सकते हैं।
If we can choose where to cry, at home or with a few people who will be fully understanding, perhaps we will feel easier. But if we can't - if we are in church and a hymn catches us off guard, or at a football game and we remember being there with a son or daughter now gone - well, the earth is our home and we can cry where we want.
If we can choose where to cry, at home or with a few people who will be fully understanding, perhaps we will feel easier. But if we can't - if we are in church and a hymn catches us off guard, or at a football game and we remember being there with a son or daughter now gone - well, the earth is our home and we can cry where we want.
उड़ते हुए पक्षियों जैसी इस दुनिया की इतनी खूबसूरती को देखकर, निश्चित ही मैं अपने इस नुक़सान के बाद भी, फिर से यहाँ अपनापन महसूस कर पाऊँगी।
In a world of such beauty as birds in flight, surely I can come to feel at home again, even after my loss.
In a world of such beauty as birds in flight, surely I can come to feel at home again, even after my loss.
शायद शोक मनाने की सबसे आश्वस्त करने वाली बात यह है कि इस प्रक्रिया को धोखा नहीं दिया जा सकता।
Perhaps the reassuring thing about grieving is that the process will not be cheated.
Perhaps the reassuring thing about grieving is that the process will not be cheated.