मुझे लगता है कि जब मुझे डर महसूस होता है, तो अक्सर वह इस बात का संकेत होता है कि मुझे कुछ करना चाहिए। यदि मुझे डर लगने लगे, तो यह मनोवैज्ञानिक रूप से इस बात का कड़ा संकेत है कि किसी बात ने मेरे भीतर बहुत गहराई तक अपनी पकड़ बना ली है।
I think when I feel fear, thats often a cue that I should do something. If I begin to feel fear, thats a strong sign, psychologically, that something has its hooks in me somewhere deep.
I think when I feel fear, thats often a cue that I should do something. If I begin to feel fear, thats a strong sign, psychologically, that something has its hooks in me somewhere deep.
विषमलिंगी महिलाएं ऐसे सवाल पूछती जिनका सीधा संबंध इस बात से होता है कि मैंने अपने शरीर के साथ क्या किया और वजन घटाने का वह सफर कैसा रहा आदि। मेरे लिए यह बस यह उजागर करता है कि यही उनकी मुख्य चिंता है। वहीं, समलैंगिक महिलाओं को यह जानने में गहरी दिलचस्पी रही है कि एक समलैंगिक किरदार निभाते समय मुझे कैसा महसूस हुआ, और अक्सर वे बच्चों के साथ अपने अनुभवों के बारे में बात करना चाहती हैं। सीधे-सादे पुरुष अक्सर एक राहत महसूस करते हैं कि उन्हें एक महिला के रूप में अय्याश का अनुभव करने का मौका मिलता है और उन्हें उसी तरह उसका न्याय नहीं करना पड़ता। यह मेरे लिए बेहद दिलचस्प है।
Heterosexual women ask questions that are a lot to do with what I did to my body and what that was like to lose all that weight and so on. To me it just reveals that that's a preoccupation of theirs. Or gay women have been really keen on knowing how I felt about playing a gay character and have often wanted to talk about their own experiences with children. Straight men have often shown some sense of relief, that they get to experience the philanderer as a woman and not have to judge her in the same way. That's fascinating to me.
Heterosexual women ask questions that are a lot to do with what I did to my body and what that was like to lose all that weight and so on. To me it just reveals that that's a preoccupation of theirs. Or gay women have been really keen on knowing how I felt about playing a gay character and have often wanted to talk about their own experiences with children. Straight men have often shown some sense of relief, that they get to experience the philanderer as a woman and not have to judge her in the same way. That's fascinating to me.
वेश्यावृत्ति जैसी किसी बात पर चर्चा करते समय, सामने वाला व्यक्ति एक अनिश्चित पहलू बन जाता है जिसकी अपनी प्रतिक्रिया होगी, और हो सकता है कि वह वैसी न हो जैसी आप चाहते हैं। कभी-कभी मुझे लगता है कि यह कहना कि उन्हें बताना स्वार्थी होगा, दरअसल इस भ्रम में जीने जैसा है कि सारी ताकत आपके पास ही है। आप कहते हैं कि उन्हें बताना स्वार्थी होगा, जबकि असलियत में आप इस बात से डरे होते हैं कि उन्हें बताने से उन्हें वह ताकत मिल जाएगी जिससे वे अपनी मर्जी से कदम उठा सकें, क्योंकि एक बार जब वे सच जान जाते हैं, तो वे ऐसे व्यक्ति बन जाते हैं जो प्रतिक्रिया दे सकता है।
To talk about something like prostitution, the other person then becomes the wild card that will have a response, and it may not be the response you want. Sometimes I think saying it would be selfish to tell them is still being under the illusion that you have all the power. You say it would be selfish to tell them, when in fact you're scared that in telling them, it gives them the power to do what they might want to do because once they know, they become somebody who could be reactive.
To talk about something like prostitution, the other person then becomes the wild card that will have a response, and it may not be the response you want. Sometimes I think saying it would be selfish to tell them is still being under the illusion that you have all the power. You say it would be selfish to tell them, when in fact you're scared that in telling them, it gives them the power to do what they might want to do because once they know, they become somebody who could be reactive.
हम महिलाएं हमेशा फिल्में देखती हैं और अगर आपको कूल दिखना है तो आपको फिल्म के पुरुष किरदार से खुद को जोड़ना ही पड़ता है।
We as women are always watching movies and if you want to be cool you have to identify with the man in the movie.
We as women are always watching movies and if you want to be cool you have to identify with the man in the movie.
सहायक भूमिकाओं में होने में एक अलग ही सुकून होता है क्योंकि सारा दारमदार अकेले आप पर नहीं होता।
There's a certain comfort in being in supporting roles because it's not all on you.
There's a certain comfort in being in supporting roles because it's not all on you.