अपना गुज़ारा करने के लिए मैंने पढ़ाई के साथ-साथ एक चीनी रेस्तरां में काम किया। लोग मुझसे कहते, "अरे, तुम्हें अपने घर की बहुत याद आती होगी," लेकिन मैंने ज़िंदगी बहुत संघर्षों में बिताई थी। मैं वहाँ आकर बेहद खुश थी। अमेरिका आने से पहले मैंने कभी सुपरमार्केट भी नहीं देखा था। घर पर, मेरे माता-पिता मुझे फ्रिज खोलने तक नहीं देते थे, क्योंकि उन्हें डर था कि बार-बार खोलने से उसका दरवाज़ा खराब हो जाएगा।
I studied and worked in a Chinese restaurant to support myself. People would say to me 'Oh you must be missing home', but I had grown up hard. I was so happy to be there. I had never even been in a supermarket before coming to America. At home, my parents wouldn't let me open the refrigerator, because they worried I'd damage the door by opening it too many times.
I studied and worked in a Chinese restaurant to support myself. People would say to me 'Oh you must be missing home', but I had grown up hard. I was so happy to be there. I had never even been in a supermarket before coming to America. At home, my parents wouldn't let me open the refrigerator, because they worried I'd damage the door by opening it too many times.
मैं यह बात पूरी तरह सुनिश्चित करती हूँ कि मेरी बेटियाँ शिक्षा का महत्व समझें। मैं नहीं चाहती कि वे बिगड़ैल बनें और सिर्फ़ बड़े प्राइवेट स्कूलों के बच्चों को ही जानें। मैं चाहती हूँ कि वे मिसाल कायम कर अच्छे से पेश आएँ। मेरा मानना है कि अगर आप लोगों के साथ अच्छे से पेश आते हैं, तो बच्चे भी वही सीखते हैं। इसी तरह, अगर आप लोगों के साथ बदतमीज़ी से पेश आते हैं, तो बच्चे वही अपनाते हैं।
I really make sure that my girls understand the importance of education. I don't want them to be spoilt and only know private-school kids. I want them to behave well by example. I believe if you are nice to people, children will follow. Likewise, if you are rude to people, children will follow.
I really make sure that my girls understand the importance of education. I don't want them to be spoilt and only know private-school kids. I want them to behave well by example. I believe if you are nice to people, children will follow. Likewise, if you are rude to people, children will follow.
मुझे लगता है कि मेरी बड़ी बहन शायद ज़्यादा समझदार होगी, लेकिन मैंने बहुत कड़ी मेहनत की।
I think my older sister was probably more clever, but I worked very hard.
I think my older sister was probably more clever, but I worked very hard.